I am bothering writing this so AirBnb sees that this problem is even causing someone that has never written in a forum to share.
You experienced ones are right, I shouldn’t sweat a 4 rating but I did; I felt like the straight A student that really puts her heart in it, had just been given a C. My blood pressure rose and I couldn’t keep it out of my thoughts. If our Airbnb income was something I relied on, I would have been besides myself. What Airbnb’s rating policy will do to me if I continue to get unrealistic scores is to basically make me quit. They can keep all the airbnb’s in my city run by students in nasty student housing and the homes lucky enough to have dedicated guest space will walk away.
I’ve been reading about the problem over the last year but because I had only been receiving solid 5s, I really hadn’t taken it too seriously. I’m sure most dedicated Airbnb hosts put their hearts in their place and the unfair rating system needs to be replaced by asking more accurate questions. Comparing an Airbnb to a hotel is too easy for our guests unless Airbnb takes the responsibility to make it clear how the rating works.
I've only been a host for about a year in a half. I recently retired and it gives me something to do, plus I enjoy meeting people. I only have a total of about 35 reviews so when I received my very first 4 (in value), I was surprised first by the sting of a 4*. The guests had taken full advantage of the outdoor patio, the craft beer, the lovely pastries, and the espresso maker.... I’ve been in hotels 30-40 days a year and even compared to your standard Hilton, our Airbnb is SO much better. Then I saw that my rating had moved to 4.9! How one single star can make that much difference! It felt like I got punched.
Recently, a woman reserved but wound up only sending her husband. She had sent me weeks of requests as to recommending: an orthodontist for her entering freshman, dermatologist, where they might park their Class C 36 foot long motorhome if we didn’t have the room(!), advice on greek life vs honors dorm, etc. etc. All I did gladly as I enjoy doing that kind of thing for my guests. All this AFTER she had talked me down on my price. After recommending an Airbnb further away from the University or perhaps a hotel, she had practically pleaded that she really wanted to stay at our place. I was busy watching a movie so I broke down and lowered the price – I know, I know…… Anyway, her husband raved about the place, the amenities, etc. and even left a lovely written note. The wife, who didn’t even see the place but who had the AirBnb account rated it from her Texas home and gave a 4 on value. This is after she texted me and told me how much he adored it and hopes to stay with me again because “he’s very picky!” I charged $50 less than a mediocre hotel on a super busy weekend. I find it a little funny that the 2 times I've been give a 4 star on a category, were also the most demanding and got the place for much less than usual. When the university starts classes again, I suspect that they will try to stay with me again – I had given the husband a thumbs up – he was great. Wish I could block them as I can’t afford another 4.
As I’ve hosted, I’ve generally had fun but recently, after learning some hard lessons, if Airbnb continues to cause me stress, I’m out!