Hi there!
I offer to my guests, before arrival, their choice of bagels & cream cheese OR croissants & jam.
Coffee, tea, hot cocoa and a bottle of water are always stocked.
I also offer an adult beverage upon arrival, they have their choice of a local hard cider or beer. I always make sure my guests are of drinking age.
And, I love to bake so most evenings when guests arrive, I greet them with a small homemade treat.
For the summer months, we have a fire pit ready to go as well as some complimentary marshmellows and smore ingredients. (I don't do much baking in the heat of the summer months) Also, for holidays, I do a little something extra. This weekend being Valentines Day, my guests will receive a bottle of wine, chocolate covered strawberries and some local made fine chocolates.
I always assumed it's up to each host to decide what they have the time and energy for... and for guests, they get to decide by reviews, if they want a little more attention or if they'd prefer to be left on their own.