Hi Amy,
I certainly respect your opinion and I don't disagree with it where i relates to bargain hunters. We're lucky though. If clients are only relying on price then there are a lot of different options to choose from in the hospitality idustry. What you're also offering is an intangible for a great vacation.
My idea is to not to sound so harsh when you're refusing a client. Wouldn't it be better to get what you want, while allowing the client to feel like thet're getting what they want? Since we are in the hospitality industry then the image that we want to portray is one of accomodation.
An example. Someone wants to negotiate a rate and I'll come back with two week packages. I'm not reducing my rate but I'm letting the client know that we do have discounts for longer term stays. And I do have a 10% discount for multi week reservations (during low season). Build a price package and stick to it. Smile and try to show the client that they're the most important thing and that you really wish that it was in your power to help them but that, unfortunately, for your house your costs will not allow you to reach their price point.
You can't please everyone but you have to show an accomodating image. And I'll go further than that. Your own mindset has to be in that direction as well.
I appreciate that you have another business to rely on as a frame of reference. So do I. I have a 250 employee telecom company with a thirty person sales force. I can't imagine my sales reps telling a potential client to take a hike (in nicer terms of course) because the client took the time to like your product. Now he/she has to decide on whether or not it fits in their budget. And if it doesn't this time then you may have a potential client in the future. And if that client was never meant to be because you're totally out of their price range then there's nothing personal. All they did is ask.
Your mindset will mirror your responses.
I'm not trying to be critical but I'm trying to highlight that our state of mind is important in a successful business venture. And if there's no deal then there's no deal but we should still appreciate that client's effort in reaching out.
This will help you to appreciate your business and your guests as well!
Thanks,
Maged