I made reservation in Minneapolis, MN 4 months out for my brother's wedding. The property was perfect in that it fit our family and was really close to the reception location. Everything was going smoothly until the Host started to text me about renting the same property on VRBO to save $300. I just ignored these text as I already had reservations on Airbnb with a $2,000+ deposit for 5 nights. In hindsight, I probably should have just responded with a NO, but didn't think I needed to. I was very responsive with all communications regarding my reservations with Airbnb, just unreponsive about the VRBO issue.
A few days ago, I was informed that my reservation was cancelled due to "no responses to messages". I immediately texted the Host for an explanation and stated that we should not have been cancelled because I didn't respond to his VRBO request. I have screen shots of this. I then went onto the VRBO site to see if I could book the property as I didn't want to lose it. I discovered that the majority of the nights we wanted were no longer available. The charge rate that was booked by another party was approximately 50% per night higher than what we initially reserved the property for.
I am so frustrated. With a smaller window, many of the properties are no longer available and the rates have increased since I started my search 3 months ago. So now I have to scramble to find a property to fit a large group that is affordable and not too far from all the wedding activities. I am discovering that this is no easy feat.