Hi everyone, Not sure if this is the correct place to post this but can use some advice. I only do long term hosting and up until now all experiences were pleasant.
The girl who has been with me Since the beginning of March and I got along up until a few weeks ago. She secured a permanent job in the area and wanted to move out early and I mutually agreed because I have family moving back into the country so win win situation up until she filed to leave 30 days early.
Airbnb sent her a notice of what will be drawn from her account on May 7. I had told her before that we'd figure it out so neither of us would lose and money. Friends and family advised me to have her file through Airbnb and not just settle it with our money exchange and now I'm glad I did.
She feels like she owes me nothing because guest doesn't understand I get paid monthly so haven't received any dollars for days in May (she was supposed to leave May ) no cleaning fee and also I would have to absorb the Airbnb fee for 96 days because they won't rebate it.
Hoping to appease her I sent a text and offered to refund half of it. This just seemed to make her more angry. She came home and had me send the text I sent her through the Airbnb form so she could have it on record.
Since then besides my stomach being in knots, we've done a good job of avoiding each other. About a week ago I tried another "peace" message. She responded with a nasty message back saying I have a lot of nerve asking her to pay for anything and then ended it with but do I think you're a good host - Absolutely. It was bizarre to say the least.
So back to ignoring each other until yesterday am. I was working at my computer when she came thru and mumbled a "Mornin" on her way out the door. I didn't look up or respond. Apparently this set her off. Within me knowing it she closed the garage, came around the front and packed up everything and left.
I'm starting to clean today and finding a few odds and ends of hers. I was going to wait until the weekend (her planned move out date) and tell her she can pick them up outside. She's stressing me out too much to have another confrontation with her. I have no idea if she contacted Airbnb and what she said and do not look forward to her review.
As far as my orginal promise of half back; not sure what to do.
Oh, she accidentally did a hard reset of my router while I was out of town (took $89.00 tech support help) and calling in a favor from friend to get it running again. When I mentioned it to her she laughed and blew the whole thing off. She's done a few other things that didn't thrill me like fly her daugher in while I was away without asking me, never removes tennis shoes and tracks through the house, etc.
Ok. Done rambling. If anyone is still reading .. thoughts pls. Tia
