I'm sure this has been semi covered in other conversations but I'm wondering more how to review guests who were messy and kind of took over the whole house. This has happened on a few occasions now, and I think I can definitely do some mitigating by being more clear in the orientation, in the written communication left for the guests, and in my house rules on the listing, however, I still need to review in such a way that other hosts will have a bit of a heads up. In all cases the people were very nice, (if anything in one case they were too chatty, making it difficult to leave for work or do work on my computer as they keep wanting to chat and show me things), so in light of that I don't want to leave a harsh review, but want to let other potential hosts know, they don't exactly leave the space 'as it was'. For some reason it's very common for people to leave lights on they are not using, to not lock the door when they leave (even though I have these two items bolded in the house rules sheet I leave in their rooms), and a bunch of other small things that end up adding up to big things, such as... leaving apple stickers on my placemats, leaving cupboard doors open in the kitchen, tea towels not folded back up, chairs pulled out of the kitchen table, and books etc. left in the main area. I don't care what they do in the bathroom and bedrooms as I don't go in there, it's the shared space that's the problem as we all have to use it. In one case they took over so much it was difficult for me to even make myself tea in the morning as they were making eggs and coffee and tea and muffins... all at the same time.
I don't think these are horrible people, I think they may just not be super conscientious, and likely their own cleanliness standards are not exactly the same as mine. In one case I even had guests so comfortable in my home that they climbed over the back of the couch stepping on the cushions to sit on it (instead of just walking to it from the front of the couch) and sitting on the armrest section of the couch instead of the area you are supposed to sit on. This in my opinion is definitely making yourself too comfortable! I'd like some guidance on how to word the review so that it's not super negative, highlights they were wonderful people, but also gives a little nudge to future hosts that they may make themselves just a little too comfortable and may not completely tidy up after themselves.
Thanks all!