Mid-term Guest Issues

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Billie37
Level 3
Allen, TX

Mid-term Guest Issues

Hello, I just started hosting last December and for the first time (via Airbnb platform) I have mid term guests.  These guests (husband, wife, 3 kids, and dog) have been at my house around 55ish days now.  They are paid up until Sept 30th.  Here's what has happened so far from initial communications in June:

They asked if I could be flexible with them and let them only pay until end of September, but they may stay until February - they were not sure of an exact end date, but they needed my calendar blocked without payment
• I gave them the Airbnb at half price
• I blocked my whole calendar for months for free with no payment  

They asked if they could arrive a week early "since no one will be there" kind of acting like I would allow them for free since no one else was booked.
• I allowed unplanned early arrival by one week and added half price discount

(I had to take 2 vacation days at this point to clean because I didn't have enough time in between people with busy work schedule, etc)

They asked if they could arrive another day early for free
• Allowed another unplanned early arrival by a day and gave for free  
• Also gave additional $100 discount because of road construction that had just started near the home.

They asked to use the house for the school registration and if they could get their mail forwarded to Airbnb
• Allowed forwarded mail and address to be used for school registration

They had a package delivered early to home before check-in date and then arrived with an unplanned dog
Asked if they could be added to the ring cameras and other cameras (not typical)
• Allowed Ring cameras, said dog was okay, took pic of the package and let them know it arrived

When they arrived, they asked how to close the electric gate. I responded "with the remote that is on the snack basket labeled 'electric gate remote'" There were tons of little communications like this, but I'll leave those out.

They asked if they could have an extra remote to the electric gate

• I gave them number to the gate company and direct number to Jean who works there, found PDF for manual and forwarded it, all just in case. I called gate company and they said they don’t set up remotes.

• I ordered a remote from Amazon and had to learn how to set up extra electric gate remote myself (which wasn’t hard), ordered Liftmaster box keys, etc. I did not charge them an additional charge to for this extra remote.

 

After a few days, they messaged about downstairs half bath fan being stuck on like it was an emergency, although it was not on when I arrived the next morning.

• I came over the next morning and fixed it. Also, I tried a different electric remote I bought for gate,  since the one I ordered from Amazon didn’t come in yet, but didn’t work.

 

They messaged about miscellaneous mail that is coming in and what to do with it

• I told them about how you can return mail to sender

 

They messaged me about ants and what to do (I have organic and non organic pesticide in the house) - said they didn’t have ants in Seattle

• I came over the next day, wiped up the ants, caulked the baseboards, sprayed with organic spray, left them more spray and supplies, put Terro baits down inside and outside, and plugged in some electric pest repellers, also called 4 exterminators and had one come out the following business day

 

They messaged me about 2 lizards in the bathroom “just wanted me to be aware”

• Explained it’s just Texas and the geckos are everywhere, usually outside, but may have come in because of the spraying

 

I messaged them that hail was coming their way during a thunderstorm and that Oncor had texted me saying their power was out.

• I offered to come over with coolers and ice for food, they declined.

• I gave them the link to get electric updates to their phone.

• I sent screenshots from NextDoor about other neighbors conversations about power being out

• I stayed up all night monitoring the situation and emailing updates from Oncor - Oncor kept pushing back the power on time.

• By morning the husband seemed very upset the power wasn’t back on, so I gave him $50 for the inconvenience. He happily accepted it. Power came on at that time. (out from ~7PM to 6AM)

 

They messaged me about how they can keep their small dog from fitting through a gap in the fence caused by the moving electric gate.

• Advice about using boards in the shed (for really small dogs) is in the Airbnb manual. I also spoke to the wife about using boards in the shed when we were outside and the pest control guy showed up.

• When the husband contacted me about what possibly to do, I figured they just didn’t want to use the boards, so I mentioned several other things I could come over and do to fill the gap. He ended up fixing the gap himself with the boards in the shed which amazed me he could fix anything!

(Their dog is small like a cat)

 

And they are leaving their dog outside and in the garage which is stated in the Airbnb house manual as a "no no.”  The dog is constantly scratching the storm door to get in.  I am wondering how many doors are scratched right now.

 

I contacted the couple about me coming over to change the Air filter. The husband told me about his girls ripping curtain hardware from wall and asked if I had wall anchors. (they have 3 children)

• I came over the very next day and changed the Air filter in the attic, fixed the curtains, and did other maintenance like changing out the ring camera batteries. No charge for anything.

 

They messaged me about puddles and sent me pictures.

• Explained again that it’s Texas and it thunderstorms here and puddles happen. He said they don’t get puddles in Seattle since it just mists.
At this point I feel they are trying to get more discounts.

 

They called several times Sunday night (Sept 6th) from 8:20 to 8:40PM hanging up and leaving no message. I called back after finding out it wasn’t some spam caller (I had originally blocked the number after 20 minutes of them calling and hanging up). The Husband told me they had to use the override switch on the electric gate and push it open. The gate was heavy he said. I, as a 5'3" female, can push the gate open and closed all by myself, btw.

• Not sure what he wanted me to do at 9PM at night, but I came over and looked at it. I informed The Husband that the over communication had to stop. I couldn’t handle it anymore.

• Gate override information is listed in Airbnb manual

• Gate override switch is labeled with large index card and big writing with marker

• Gate company information, along with manual, was given when they first moved in.

• I read the manual late that night after getting back from looking at the gate and saw that the gate has batteries, even though it plugs in, and that those batteries needed to be replaced every 3 years.

• The very next morning, Sept 7th, I went to Academy Sports and bought two 7AH batteries, went to the house and replaced them in the Liftmaster gate box/motor. It looked like someone had been inside the box messing with the wires.

• Also, I saw that the $260 (before tax) cat house was broken when I got to the Airbnb to replace the batteries. This was upsetting because with all the over communication, and messaging me about puddles and “lizards” he couldn’t message me about the broken cat house. 

• I called The Husband several times about 1) someone pulling out wires from inside the Liftmaster motor (he denied messing with wires), 2) The broken cat house (he admitted his kids broke), 3) how I didn’t know if I wanted them to stay past the end of September, etc. The Husband said that he still wanted to stay at my house and he wouldn’t contact me anymore for all the little things.  On the phone, he said he just messaged me about puddles and lizards because he thought we were friends.

 

I tell the husband that things have not been going smoothly for me, how I just lost my job, my car just broke down, and I can’t handle the stress of feeling like I’m constantly waiting on him and his family.  At this point, him and I had messaged over 160 times through personal email within a 4 or 5 week period.  He said he would stop the over communication and fix the small things himself.  I told him that worried me, and what if he then becomes passive-aggressive.  He said I had nothing to worry about.  The husband said they would like to pay outside of Airbnb “To save me money”.  I told him that it’s the guests that get charged fees.  Going outside of Airbnb would only save him money. 

 

I signed up with Cozy on Sept 10th and sent a request for payments to be set via up early on Sept 10th.

• No response from them the rest of the day Sept 10th.

• No response Sept 11th.

I was getting the feeling that since I set my boundaries and asked The Husband to not over communicate, he is now not communicating at all.

• Sept 12th, I message The Wife’s account via Airbnb:

Hi The Wife, I hope everything is going well. I just wanted to send a friendly reminder that your last paid day is coming up in a little over a couple of weeks. I have continued to keep my entire calendar blocked off since June, but unfortunately I can not financially keep it blocked very much longer. Are you and The Husband wanting to book past September 30th? If not, no worries! Your checkout date will be September 30th and I will open the calendar back up for bookings in October. If you would like to stay past the 30th, please let me know. I messaged The Husband a couple times and have not had any response. The latest I can keep the calendar blocked is September 18th. Hopefully that gives you some time to decide. Have a great day, Billie

She messages: Hey Billie! I’m pretty sure we plan to stay. He is out of town for a funeral right now so the last week has been a little hectic. But we love it here and the kids do too so I’m pretty sure we’ll be staying. Thanks!!

I message back: Ok, great! Thanks for letting me know! Sorry for your (and/or The Husband's) loss. I'm really glad you all are enjoying it there. Please let me know if something changes!

 

• Sept 13th, I see The Husband is at the house on the outside cameras. No response all day.

• Sept 14th, I close down the Cozy request since really it’s only doing them a favor, not me.

And nothing from them Sept 15th.  

 

So, today (the 16th) I message again with a “friendly reminder” for payment if they wanted to stay and that I would be opening my calendar to the public on the 18th.  I state that I am no longer communicating off the platform and thus it’s best they never responded to set up their Cozy payment, because communicating off platform is not the right thing to do.  Boy did I learn that the hard way!  I state that it seems to me that once I set my boundaries, the husband quit communicating.  I can post what our conversation went like today, but it was a ton more back and forth with them calling, texting, and emailing.  I had to keep saying “I can only communicate on Airbnb”.  And the husband asked for just one call off the platform.  I said no.  I opened my calendar and only gave them a 10% discount instead of 50%.  He was not happy.  After that he kept pushing again to speak outside of Airbnb and saying "he just wanted to save me money."  I told him AGAIN, going outside the platform saves him money, not me.

 

Then, I assume it was the husband, started trying to guilt trip me with the price saying he could not afford it and "I am sad for my kids and the impact you are having on them". That was my last straw.  At that point I said it’s best for them to go at the end of the month and not book further.  They said they would leave. 

 

This all seems so crazy to me!  Is this typical of mid term Airbnb guests?  How often do you get contacted by your guests that are staying over 30 days? 

1 Best Answer

@Billie37  Thanks for posting the follow up to this disastrous booking.

 

If you are "following" a thread, or if someone tags you in a post, when you click on your profile photo here on the forum, your notifications show there.

 

I'm so sorry you had to deal with such disrespectful, clueless and pushy people.

 

One thing- I read the review you left and the response to their review. I realize you were super upset about all this, but if you ever get a bad guest again, don't leave a novelette length review or response. It's fine and cathartic to vent here on the forum, detailing every outrageous transgression, but in reviews and responses, stay brief and somewhat general. When you write a guest review, it is to let other hosts know if these were suitable or objectionable guests. Other hosts don't need to read every gritty detail to understand that guests were horrid.

 

For these guests, "Worst experience with guests, or anyone, for that matter, ever. Demanding of constant attention over ridiculous "issues", ongoingly disrespectful of both the host and the property, brought undisclosed dog, left the place filthy, (8 days of cleaning and repairs)  with multiple damages. Strongly not recommended" would inform other hosts of all they need to know.

 

As for the response to their review, that should have been sent as a private message to the guest, if you really wanted to let them have it. Not so as not to shame them publicly, but because your review responses appear on your profile, not the guest's and are read by potential future guests. You don't want to present yourself as a ranter, but as a professional, and you shouldn't address the bad guest in your response. Just correct any misinformation in the guest's review, for the benefit of other guests considering your listing, who don't care at all what particular nightmare you went through with other guests.

 

A brief "This review resulted from the terrible behavior of these guests, which at first I made every effort to accommodate, but at one point in their lengthy stay,  I had had enough and drew my boundaries, refusing to continue to accommodate their endless demands.

Please refer to my other guest reviews for an accurate picture of the listing, my hosting, and the type of experience you can expect when booking here" is the sort of response that would have been appropriate.

 

Glad this is behind you now and wishing you only good guests in the future. One good thing- this was probably the worst guest experience you'll ever encounter-all other guest annoyances will pale in comparison.

 

 

 

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@Sarah977 

Geckos are cute~!!!!! And they eat mosquitoes~!!! What's  not to like about them~~

 

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Sarah977
Level 10
Sayulita, Mexico

I think we should all band together in solidarity, each of us pick a different Seattle host, and box up some ants and puddles to send them. It's just too unbearably sad that they have none.

Kelly149
Level 10
Austin, TX

bless it, this is not going to end well

 

I'd start thinking of how much I'd be willing to pay them to get them out IMMEDIATELY. LIKE NOW OR AT THE VERY LATEST TOMORROW.

 

These people aren't making you money, they're costing you money... they need to goooooooo

 

Plan some exit strategies @Billie37 and please do come back to let us know how you get on. You will be in my thoughts.

@Billie37  No disrespect to Seattle, as it's currently having planet Earth's worst air quality, but it's nothing if not America's Puddle.

 

I've arrived late to this thread but I truly hope these guests are gone by now. They've abused your kind hospitality, but as many others have suggested, it is up to you to convey that this is not an option in the future. You provide brilliant hospitality within the parameters you advertise, and those who want something different should book elsewhere, period. The moment you give awful people the impression that you'll acquiesce to their awfulness, so begins the doom spiral.

@Anonymous  That one got me, too. I've never lived in Seattle, but I lived on Vancouver Island for 30 years and the whole Pacific Northwest is essentially rainforest- it rains like 200 or more days a year, so puddles would be the norm rather than the exception.  Sounds like these guests are confused, and actually lived in the Sonoran desert.

Kelly149
Level 10
Austin, TX

One addition to this thread after looking at your listing @Billie37 , you’ve rewritten a bunch of things to address these problem folks you’ve had and I think that stirs up more problems than necessary. Yes, rewrite your rules, but maybe consider that this one wonky family isn’t your target market going forward. I hope you’re well. 

@Billie37  I agree with @Kelly149  there is no need to have those numbered points in the listing, they are too specific to the one guest and are not necessary for 99% of people who will be reviewing the listing.

Cormac0
Level 10
Kraków, Poland

@Billie37 

 

These Guest passed with first class honours  a Phd. in free loading, their doctrinal thesis  "Guilt Trips R Us" explains the intricacies of extracting the maximum benefits, while making their hosts feel small and petty. 

 

The Ebenezer Scrooge School for grifters they attended is an adjunct to the former Trump University an to this day is recognised as the preeminent school in the field.

 

Guilt Trips R Us is a seminal work and is required reading for ever grifter.

 

 

Billie you've been made a sucker learn from this experience. 

I haven't read the entire thread, but all of those requests were red flags. After they stay 30 days they can begin to claim tenants rights. Honestly, you need to "recapture" the Airbnb for family use. End their tenure, and then file a complaint of trespassing if they don't leave.

The minute people ask for favors and price concessions, it's a sneak preview of the hell you're about to face. In the future, take the revenue hit and just say "no" to those reservations.

Billie37
Level 3
Allen, TX

Thanks everyone for all of your responses!  This is my first time back in the community since a day or two after my post.  I was never notified/emailed that anyone was responding, so I'm surprised to see responses!  Thanks! 

If you all want to know what happened the guests ended up trashing the place before they left.  It wasn't anything major like broken windows, holes in the wall, etc.  It was more like death by 1000 cuts... broken mirror, broken laundry basket, ruined silverware, etc.  Also, everything was so dirty, it took 8 days to clean.  I was so happy to to have them out that I didn't make a claim to Airbnb.  I wasn't even going to review them.  However, since they reviewed me, I honestly reviewed them and I'm glad I did.  

Yes, I learned a lot from this experience.  I should have followed my gut with the red flags.  I was uneasy as soon as they started, but tried to brush it off.  Also, I should have made a claim against them for all the damage as soon as I saw it all.  I totally regret that.  Oh well, it's all over now.  Live and learn.  

@Billie37  Thanks for posting the follow up to this disastrous booking.

 

If you are "following" a thread, or if someone tags you in a post, when you click on your profile photo here on the forum, your notifications show there.

 

I'm so sorry you had to deal with such disrespectful, clueless and pushy people.

 

One thing- I read the review you left and the response to their review. I realize you were super upset about all this, but if you ever get a bad guest again, don't leave a novelette length review or response. It's fine and cathartic to vent here on the forum, detailing every outrageous transgression, but in reviews and responses, stay brief and somewhat general. When you write a guest review, it is to let other hosts know if these were suitable or objectionable guests. Other hosts don't need to read every gritty detail to understand that guests were horrid.

 

For these guests, "Worst experience with guests, or anyone, for that matter, ever. Demanding of constant attention over ridiculous "issues", ongoingly disrespectful of both the host and the property, brought undisclosed dog, left the place filthy, (8 days of cleaning and repairs)  with multiple damages. Strongly not recommended" would inform other hosts of all they need to know.

 

As for the response to their review, that should have been sent as a private message to the guest, if you really wanted to let them have it. Not so as not to shame them publicly, but because your review responses appear on your profile, not the guest's and are read by potential future guests. You don't want to present yourself as a ranter, but as a professional, and you shouldn't address the bad guest in your response. Just correct any misinformation in the guest's review, for the benefit of other guests considering your listing, who don't care at all what particular nightmare you went through with other guests.

 

A brief "This review resulted from the terrible behavior of these guests, which at first I made every effort to accommodate, but at one point in their lengthy stay,  I had had enough and drew my boundaries, refusing to continue to accommodate their endless demands.

Please refer to my other guest reviews for an accurate picture of the listing, my hosting, and the type of experience you can expect when booking here" is the sort of response that would have been appropriate.

 

Glad this is behind you now and wishing you only good guests in the future. One good thing- this was probably the worst guest experience you'll ever encounter-all other guest annoyances will pale in comparison.

 

 

 

Yes, I realize I also made a mistake by being too verbose in my response to their review and ranting.  Thanks for your input.  Too bad I didn't have you to consult before I replied to them, ha.  

@Billie37  I hope you've had better guest experiences since that one.

@Billie37You should know that your post has become legendary in the CC. We refer to it as the “Puddles in Seattle” post. It will help many a new host learn to avoid some of the major potholes along the hosting trail. It’s good you shared your experience and came back to update. Glad you came out the other side and are moving forward very well.

I’m sure it will be smooth sailing ahead for you now that you have this experience out of the way! Best of luck.

Haha, thank you so much @Colleen253 !  That's awesome!  And kind of embarrassing that I have publicly looked like such a dummy, but if it helps people learn then that's a good thing! 

I've actually been logging in lately because I'm having a strange issue with my current guest.  But I'll make that a new post... It's definitely not as bad as the "Puddles in Seattle" people, but definitely weird how I have 4 adults in my house that apparently did not know how to use a shower.