Hi all! I was hoping to get some advice from more experienced AirBnB hosts about a guest I just recently hosted. My husband and I just started hosting last month, and we have had 6 or 7 great stays and 5 reviews. We've really enjoyed hosting people, and typically the guests are very nice, easygoing, and low key. We try to be as accommodating as possible and think of things the guest would need to know beforehand (extra supplies, etc).
Recently we had a guest who kind of confused me. When he arrived, I was away but let him in the place remotely. He sent me multiple messages detailing what he was doing with his day and expressing hope of meeting me. I didn't get to see him for more than a couple minutes the first day, and the next day when I saw him, he complained about not being able to talk with us more, stating that the reason he chose AirBnB was because he wanted to talk to his hosts, not like a hotel. So that evening, my husband and I took 2 hours to chat with him - he was very curious about our lives and asked a lot of questions. He also told us about his life; we had a pretty good time. I thought that we had resolved his concerns, and he left early the next morning. He left us a nice note in our comment book in the bedroom.
The next day, my neighbor confronted me saying that our guest had parked in the condo's garage driveway for many hours his first day here, blocking all of the residents ability to leave! This was a great shock to me, and my neighbor said the cops were called but our guest removed his car just minutes before the cops arrived. The neighbor was greatly agitated, and I tried my best to apologize for this great inconvenience to him and the rest of the people who live in our condo.
I didn't know how to address this issue, because our guest had not told us of this problem at all during his stay. When I left him a review, I decided not to address it for a couple of reasons...firstly, I figured it was over and done with. But the most motivating factor was that this guest made me feel really uncomfortable on a visceral level, and I did not want to antagonize this person. It is hard to describe why I felt this way, and I did not want to take rash actions in case this was just a difference in personality. I did adjust my house rules to say not to block the garage entryways.
However, when we read his review, though it was nice, he only gave us 3 stars on overall experience and cleanliness. This was really sad to me, because since we are new at hosting we are hoping to give people a 5 star (or at least 4 star) experience. He brought up in private feedback a couple of things that we could have done better, like give him a fresh towel per shower, and have more toilet paper available. I wish he had brought this up while we were there because we have extra towels in the closet and TP in the bathroom cupboard.
I'm really disappointed in this whole interaction, and I was wondering if older hosts could give some insight into what I should do now/in the future? Has anyone had an experience where their guest made them feel really uncomfortable? I feel that I may have done other hosts an injustice by giving this person a positive review.
Any advice appreciated. Thanks
cecilia