Thank you all for the thoughtful comments and support! We called AirBnB that night during the problem party to let them know the giant party, huge guest numbers and that the local law enforcement was involved... They were very supportive on the phone. I sent pictures of the destroyed sections of the house and muddy carpets and floors the next day... Have not heard back form the AirBnB contact guy yet since sending the images... It is pretty bad.. Half of the 10 person dining table was upstairs in the loft space and the other half was thrown out the side of the house in shattered bits!????? Poor lovely table..
I was able to have the guests for this coming weekend cancel gracefully and they were support supportive and kind regarding the fiasco that forced me to cancel their stay 😞 . I'm hoping we can get the place ready for the next guest later in June, we have two weeks of clear time!
I did freeze the account because I just can't deal with or handle (trauma) taking on more future guests right now until we can get this cleaned up and running. We are already booked up so much it's lucky we have a couple weeks right now. But we have a long several years history of conscious nature connected visitors/guests and make it 100% Clear no parties no loud groups etc... We just got completely taken advantage of. We are so isolated and offer a huge space of 10 acres to play around it, I think that attracted the party.
The mad neighbors I profusely apologized to - we are 10 ares away from each out here so not a lot of them to try and grovel my way through. We are letting our already scheduled future guests know as a reminder about No loud parties and noise and remember we are a quiet country retreat... But we all have each other's contact and they are the first folks to call us noting the urgent issue happening! We all know and communicate and it might be a slow grovel back to normal...
I like the noise meter and camera idea. We are thinking about adding that now in a spot that is not interfering with the house privacy but to get us an idea if things are amiss...
Red flags on the guests that caused this disaster. Biggest one that I usually am NOT one who falls for but they had a new account created in the month of the reservation. HUGE caution flag from but all fast and clear communication with the guest about him traveling with his family down the coast and the 4 of them desperately needing a spot to stop for the night. My Empathy got me. So in retrospect even thinking I was being a good human for helping this poor family out for a 1 night stay during their travels was a bad idea. Again I thought I was being so supportive... ouch hurts worse like that! Other red flags the picture of the guest was not a human - it was a scenic view of one of the Hwy1 bridges. This was getting me, well maybe they really are traveling down the coast... it played more to helping them seal the deal.. But usually I want to see that these are real humans and I can see a face with the conversation... Another lesson there too.
Appreciate you guys so much,
thanks!
Jeremy(!)