Sex in our living room.

Ben190
Level 1
Montreal, Canada

Sex in our living room.

We had 4 guys rent our single private room (it has a queen and a fouton so it can accomodate 4). They are in Montreal for the F1. Well, my partner went to the bathroom at 4am and found that one of the guys had brought a girl home from a bar and was having sex on our sofa. My partner was mortified, went straight to the bathroom, and the girl apologized and left. Also, from 5am-9am one of the guys was passed out hugging our only toilet.

 

They are here for another night tonight. My partner wanted to kick them out, I had a frank talk with the 2 guys who were up early this morning and told them that we were not pleased... But is there some way to report what happened and get advice?

 

For now we haven't kicked them out, we are going to just power through tonight and see them off tomorrow morning - we hope there won't be any issues tonight.

 

This is only our second booking ever, so we don't want a bad review - but we feel pretty confused about what we should do. 

 

To be clear: This was full-on sex on our couch in the shared space.

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Ali40
Level 10
Crozet, VA

 Your house rules say to remove your shoes in the house, but there's nothing forbidding sex on the sofa! I guess you thought that was a given. BUT you do say no parties or gatherings - If you want to be rid of these boys contact Airbnb and ask that the remainder of their stay be cancelled (before worse happens). And add to your House Rules "Nobody but the booked guests are allowed in the house during the reservation". The sex in the shared space and the passed out over the toilet seems inappropriate behavoir for any adult, no matter how you spin it. 

 

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Lois-and-Darryl0
Level 10
Rochester, WA

@Ben190:  What a shame that one of your first Hosting experiences is such a horrible nightmare!  Looking back to when we started, I probably would allow them to stay the second night too - not wanting to have a scene.  But now that we've had 3 rough parties in our house with extra people (we don't allow parties), and one with plenty of lively sex, after a year of hosting, now I wouldn't hesitate to call Airbnb.  If they feel no shame in this kind of behavior on the very first night in your home, what prevents them from even worse behavior tonight.  Please don't put up with it - it is your home.  Learn from it and adjust your House Rules, maybe target a particular type of Guest a little more, and move on.  And write an honest review, please.  Good Luck.  And know that the vast majority of your Guests will be awesome and you'll thoroughly enjoy them.  Go back and check your listing, and see where you might "tighten" it up a bit that may prevent this behavior in the future - without full-on having to say, "Please don't have sex on our sofa."  Good Luck! Lois  

Well, we powered through, and there were no more incidents, they left a couple of hours ago.

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