@Randi206
Sorry to here that.
We had a guest booked for July 2021, she was staying elsewhere, but had the gumption to check out our place several days before her checkin with us. We happened to be there doing a changeover She was extremely nice and polite with 2 kids in the back seat of the car. We have a flexible cancellation policy, yet an hour past the deadline of our cancellation policy, thd lady called completely hysterical and in tears. So much so, that I had trouble understanding her. She was calling to let me know she had to cancel, she had just received a call from her Mother that her younger brother had passed away unexpectedly that morning.
Here's what we did....
1 Assured her that we would support her.
2 Told her she needed to cancel the booking
3 Got on the phone to Airbnb to have everything documented on the reservation
4 Told Airbnb to expect the guest to contact them for a refund
5 Agreed to a full extenuating circumstance neutral refund.
6 Made sure Airbnb had our full approval for the refund
7 End result, I received a call from the husband Thanking Me for helping resolve everything so quickly.
To quote @Kia272 stated, that's my $0.02 worth.
Good luck however you proceed.