an update - now airbnb site is saying i cant book another place for this weekend as this one is confirmed, and i will pay for both, so i am completely stuck. so my husband is now booking another site and i will need to fight this one out with airbnb. if i cancel i pay the service fee and I dont want to do that as the host has indicated to me that she cant accept my booking, even though it has gone through. so the software is unreliable and i have spent a lot of time on this and its very frustrating!!!!