I think it makes sense for it too be an option for hosts to offer kids free places but to impose this without a word seems to me to not be very well thought out.
I understand you may have lots of hosts who wanted this option but I imagine that there are lots of hosts who were happy with the status quo.
I was advised i need to say I do not accept infants in order to then send a special offer to charge them. That is just confusing, impractical and unprofessional.
We love having kids here and we are definitely family friendly but the reality is that children under two generally create more work, disturbance and mess and an extra adult/child would so to offer this as free does not make sense for us.
It requires differnet beds/bedding to the standard and carrying a cot up and down two flights of stairs is extra preparation. Also small children do not eat less for a buffet breakfast. There is generally a lot of waste but the same amount of food is taken. To be expected to provide this for free or have the option of making them feel not welcome by saying we don't accept them is not really a choice.
I really feel that if you are going to make such a big change that involves a change in tariff we should be informed.
It's great that you listen to what other people want and need to offer but please remember that doesn't mean everyone who has said nothing feels the same.