I really think the house rules section should be changed to Terms and Conditions and written something along the lines of ‘The Terms and Conditions for booking Jan’s listing, or listing title are’. It sounds more professional and is less patronising; I feel guests might take ‘terms and conditions’ more seriously than a set of ‘house rules’.
Before payment is taken, a message in bold or capitals could be presented to the guest asking them to read and agree to ‘Jan’s/title of listing terms and conditions’ and ask them to check a tick box, I also think the deposit value should be added to the bottom of this section with a warning that any damage to the property, or breaking of the terms may result in loss of the deposit. Adding the hosts name, or property title to the terms and conditions makes clearer to guests that each host/property has a unique set of rules attached and mentioning the deposit gives the impression the terms and conditions are taken seriously.
I’ve been having a difficult time recently with guests who completely ignore my house rules and I have suffered damage as a result, I’m considering removing my listing as the risks are not worth it. I’ve tried to combat this by adjusting my rules but I think having a long list of what begin to sound like petty rules, is off-putting to the majority of people who are respectful, however guests who ignore rules are not affected so book anyway.