@Laura2592 I'm quite spoiled, as I've had wonderful guests who have never rated less than 5*s. So I tend to write reviews within a few days of the guest's check-out, whether they have left one or not. The one time I had a bit of an issue with a guest, I was leery about the review she might leave, even though the issue happened on the first day and was resolved, and we got along amiably for the remaining days of her booking. So I waited to see if she would leave a review, she didn't, and I never bothered either. I actually wasn't inclined to mention the issue in the review, as it was settled on the first day, she wasn't stroppy about it, and she didn't overstep again, but I did have some thoughts about warning other hosts that she took some liberties (she had brought a male friend home in the middle of the night), and I was rather conflicted about what to say. So I was glad when I saw she didn't leave a review.
But I don't think I'd get into playing the "No, after you" game, unless I was really worried that a guest would write a horrid review full of lies and leave bad ratings that would tank me. I do think it's important that hosts don't shy away from leaving reviews to warn other hosts of an undesirable guest- that becomes a vicious circle- I refrain from leaving a bad review in hopes the guest won't review and affect my ratings, therefore you don't get warned, and accept the same bad guest, also fail to review, and the bad guest just keeps being able to book and make hosts' lives a drag, causing damages, demanding refunds, sneaking in extra guests.
This situation of hosts being afraid to review a bad guest because of Airbnb's unfair review policies, leads us in the direction of being selfishly concerned about our own ratings (which is understandable given the policies and penalties), instead of being a community where we work to protect each other. So the review policies do the exact opposite of the image Airbnb tries to promote of itself- they lead to an attitude of self-preservation rather than care for the community.