09-04-2017 07:35 PM
I currently have two young guests staying in our detached self contained unit. Since they arrived at 6pm on Saturday they have not left the building or even opened the curtains or windows during the day. That's 2 and a half days so far of being inside in the dark. At night I noticed that they have the lights on all through the night. I can't understand why they won't open the curtains or let in fresh air or go out to enjoy their holiday here. One of my house rules is to open the windows because the small unit can accumulate a lot of condensation on the windows leading to mold very quickly. It's making me paranoid that they're hiding something or doing something illegal. But maybe they're just shy or simply enjoying walking around naked? Even then, it doesn't add up. Can someone tell me if this is normal behaviour for a young filipino muslim couple? I assume she's muslim because she wears a head scarf. I thought maybe she wants privacy to not wear the scarf while inside. Is that a thing?
The young woman who made the booking over a month ago sent me a message to make the booking which read "seeing the sights" but they're clearly not doing that. On Monday I sent her a message to ask how everything was going and carefully enquired about why they hadn't emerged or opened the curtains. She replied saying they were both trying to finish their writing and they're fine. Today I knocked on the door to see for myself what they might be up to. The young man answered and said he was really enjoying their stay. I asked if they had been sleeping through the day and why the curtains were always closed. He replied it was to cover... I repeated the word "cover?" to imply I wanted more of an explanation and he simply said "yes, cover". He seem confident but coy - not nervous or hiding anything. The woman didn't come to the door at all.
I didn't notice or smell anything suspicious but seriously, it's confusing the heck out me. Should I be concerned? They check out tomorrow morning at 11am.
I googled the young woman's name (I don't know his name) and found out she a student of chemical engineering at a University located 2hrs from here.
09-04-2017 07:50 PM
I agree that I find it strange, but I wouldn't be very concerned. They may be on a leg of a long journey and thought that they'd want to sightsee but are just so tired that they want to rest. Also, maybe you're right and they just want to chill out in privacy and not wear the headscarf and play video games all day. They may also be newlyweds and are just getting to know each other and want to hide out from the world for a few days.
If they haven't broken any house rules, I'd leave them be.
09-04-2017 09:31 PM
@Kirsten I had a young single Jewish visitor and the lights on all through the night and day were pain in the a**. She, however, did see some sights. ;)
Don't worry, the world is getting strange.
09-04-2017 09:57 PM
Maybe they're Muslim Vampires. Have you considered that?
09-05-2017 01:57 AM - edited 09-05-2017 01:59 AM
They're probably fine.
I once had 2 guys book our 'Rural, lovers, romantic bell tent for 2', it's 1 tent in a field. Single dude arrives, then doesn't leave for 2 days. Had a male person visit him twice a day. By the 3rd day I was intrigued, sneaky peep through the fence to see him sat on the grass in middle of field with chimes, bells, candles, incense burners around him. Visitor was a chiropractor, for twice daily manipulation!
There is nowt so strange as folk, they do weird things (and normal things behind curtains).
09-05-2017 03:53 PM
Thanks for your replies. It helped me relax about the situation and get on with the rest of my day. They've just checked out and I've inspected the flat. It's very clean and tidy except for a tired old pair of womans undies in the bedsheets. lol. Maybe they were just too focused on each other to look out the window.
I'm still fairly new to airbnb, these were our fourth guests, so I'm wondering if it would be unfair to post a review that mentions the unusual behaviour. Not in a bad way but just to give other hosts a heads up of what to possibly expect. Maybe something like:
"A*** was a very quiet and private guest. She and her partner stayed with us for four days. During this time they didn't leave the flat or open the curtains and kept the lights on overnight which we found a little strange but they followed all our house rules to open the windows and they left the place clean and tidy. There English was reasonably good and they were very polite and happy to be staying with us. They said they were finishing writing. Perhaps there was an important deadline that kept them focused indoors."
What do you think?
09-05-2017 04:32 PM
Maybe I'm the odd one, but I don't care if my guests go outside or open curtains. The only thing I care about is how the space is left. I would find your comments stranger than their staying indoors.
As I said, maybe it's just me. I read all kinds of things here which bother hosts, that I wouldn't bat an eye at.
09-05-2017 08:09 PM
I agree, so long as you can successfully use a toilet and don't make much noise, I am good. The worst behavior I seen in my first 14 stays has been an overuse of cologne.
09-05-2017 08:57 PM
Your draft review..... to me sounds a little creepy and waaaa~y too detailed. As a host, I also have a tendency to keep an eye out for what my guests are doing, but I also try to make sure I respect their privacy, even if they are in my home. In the end, as long as they respect my house rules I try not to care about anything else - no matter how strange some of their actions or habits may seem to me.
I suggest you revise it to leave out your personal opinions "A*** and her partner were very quiet and private guests. They stayed with us for four days staying indoors most of this time. They followed all our house rules and they left the place clean and tidy. Their English was reasonably good, were very polite and seemed happy to be staying with us."
09-05-2017 09:09 PM
thanks. You're right. And I kinda knew it was a bit too detailed. Had to test it though to be sure.