Before i accept a booking i always write a summary of our house rules. Shared house, shared bathroom, private bedroom, parking on green patch in front of our house, a lovely cat that they will sharing the house with.
Cant you write before tgey book or after ....have to clean room....blabla. really strict check inn time from ... tilll ...
I also ask them to contact me 1 hour before arrival. That way i do have a life and go out do things. Most of our guests do it. But off course cannot compare where we live to vegas. We are not fully booked and most of our booking are last minute. 3 to 2 days before