@Andrew, You say you are not thrilled with the default behaviour regarding the way these things are processed? Then what would you prefer?
Andrew says: I had a situation today and was wondering how other hosts felt.
Me says: Since you asked other hosts to respond, here are my responses to your letter>
I had an inquiry for a full week booking that I responded to and sent a pre-approved offer against.
My Response: This remains valid for 24 hours.
Shortly after, another potential guest tried to book a shorter stay for that same week and bumped the offer I had sent just 15 minutes before.
My Response: ”The potential guests graciously requested to send their business your way. They did not “bump” the offer at all”.
I would prefer to be able to choose! _
My Response: You did do the choosing when you decided to send them a pre-approval.
The original reqeust for 7 days would have generated more revenue.
My Response: Sounds like this is the real issue of concern.
My qeustion is why shoudl a new booking request bump an existing and valid pre-approval?
My Response: You can pre-approve, decline, or write to the 2nd enquirer to let them know you have an existing enquiry for that period and you want to wait a period of time before making a decision about offering them accommodation in response to their enquiry. All these choices are yours to make.
I know I can cancel or deny the booking reqeust (thankfully didn't have instant book turned on)
My Response: See you are correct! you do have these options.
I feel it puts me an an akward situation with both guest.
My Response: I suspect you are feeling awkward about the bird that you think may have gotten away.
My offer to the first guest was cancelled for significantly more money and I'm forced to make the second guest wait while I try to connect the original guest and pressure them into a decision.
My Response: I don’t agree with this analysis of the situation. Yes, you will face the choice of accepting or declining reservation requests in the order that you receive them. But the other contributor @Amaris0 was correct. The first enquiry was probably just that; an enquiry and not an actual booking request from someone who knew what they wanted. Each party has the opportunity to know that until they accept a pre-approval they do not have a booking, and the dates might go to another guest.
@Andrew90I would not advise pressuring anyone to make a decision, just keeping all parties informed will be encouragement enough. You are not in an awkward situation when you have 2 enquiries, you are in a fortunate position! to communicate with potential guests and create a good impression and represent yourself to them. #: )
If the $value of the bookings had been reversed, would you have still been as concerned about the default position? You are essentially in full control, You got to say yes or no to both enquiries. @Amaris0is correct in what she says and this knowledge should be factored in when you are choosing what reply to make.