@Alessandra193....Oh thank goodness for that...... I thought you were going to 'cane' me forever! 🙂
There are some guests who you are never going to please! They will always have an unacceptable mindset about what you are offering! And another thing you have to remember Alessandra, this hosting thing is a leap of faith for us hosts, inviting strangers into our environment! But it also a leap of faith for the guest. They have absolutely no idea of what they are coming to!! If they book a Hilton, a Four Seasons, a Hyatt, they know exactly what they are going to get....when they book with us, it's totally unknown.
Do you know I have seen posts where the guest complained the listing did not look like the photos because it had different bed linen.....for real!!!
I say all of this Alessandra because you have to be really specific in what you offer in your listing description, so that a guest cannot take it the wrong way! And that was the crux of your post......And the other thing is, from my point of view, I try to make guests feel comfortable and make them feel they have made a good decision by booking with me.
I tell them in my messages that they are going to have to fight over who gets the worlds best bed!!! I tell them to let me know when they will be arriving so I can make sure I am not off feeding the Crocodiles in the lake!!
Alessandra this makes the guest feel comfortable from the start, humour is a universal icebreaker! Already they think they have made a good decision.
And then before a guest arrives I will sometimes throw in a response like this....
I know, it's silly banter, and I have no desire to look like the village clown, but Alessandra, it all builds a raport, and, it's a fact of life, people do not like to fight with people they like!
As for Sydney, yeah Sydney is my second home. I have a daughter who is a school teacher in Bondi at the Bondi Beach Public school on Campbell Parade, I own an apartment in Glen Street in Milsons Point almost behind Luna park overlooking Lavender Bay....I know Ultimo well and I will vouch that it is one of the best locations in Sydney to host....D*mn it, I even have a ETag in the car for the tolls....There is not a lot you can tell me about Sydney.
Please, if some of us are critical, (well me) it is because we care, we want to make the effort to see hosts like you improve, otherwise we wouldn't even bother responding.
You have got off to a really rocky start, and you say you want to improve, and you do have three great reviews....you are worth the effort and that is why, if I am critical about something that you have done wrong, it is to make you search out a better way of doing it next time.
This guest is a thorn in your side, if he leaves or has left you a poor review leave a gracious response along the lines of ...."I looked forward to having this guest stay with me and I do value his feedback, after all listening to others is how we can improve as hosts. Some things however are beyond our control like....the weather wasn't warm enough during our stay, the building complex needed a lick of paint, but I do hope that what I offered was a wonderful experience that guests will enjoy. I wish the guest all the best for the future and hope the next time they stay we might be able to snag that 5 star review.....because after all....I am learning all the time"!
A response like that Alessandra will see you as a nice accommodating host and the sort we would all like to stay with!
Good luck....cheers.....Rob