Firstly, what a bummer this experience must have been. Nobody likes problematic guests and bad reviews @Sue289!
But why wouldn't you write all of this in your review of him? I'm just puzzled as to why you didn't word that in the review and leave a public answer to his on your profile where you explain this? From the review it looks like you have a share in this mixup as opposed to your explanation it being his fault entirely.
A bad review is always a nuissance but you'll get over it eventually. It could have been far worse judging his character and behaviour towards you and that security guard. This guy does not sound particularly pleasant.
Always leave a public answer so future guests can see your side of the story and get the full picture instead of a stand alone review with a negative connotation like this.
Has Airbnb come back to you with a resolution?