Hi, I had a question that brought me here, and as I read all the comments, I thought, 'Don't question your gut feeling on something' My question was, 'How do I un-decline someone I declined? I had a max of 7 day booking turned on, which I was unaware. Potential guest sent me two messages 'that he cant book for a two week slot'. I told him the calendar is open to book, and then he sent his phone # to call him(which was hidden) Even so, I would not directly call someone, and would only book through airbnb.
After some communication, he had broken english, saying his mom was visiting from Puerto Rico, and he lives in Stokesdale(a town close by-which is what has caused me second guessing). His profile photo was somewhat sad, of a boy holding up two peace sign's.
I thought this guy is wasting my time, and may be spam, Who posts a photo of a child on their profile pic? so I hit the 'decline' button. Then when I looked into it further, I saw that I had the 7 day maximum button turned on. Once I realized, I sent a message, 'My apologies, and then expained, and then said, if you are still looking for a place, you are welcome to book. I have not heard back.
On a side note--I visited this forum when I first signed up for airbnb about a year ago, and scard me to silly---all the bad experiences, and stories. So I have not been back for awhile. I have had all good experieces with my guests. It is not really a tourist area. Most guests stay for weddings, family near by, basket weaving classes, passing through during travel, greenway bike riders, etc. Hotels are about 20 minutes away,