@Helen350
Most often it is the clandestine affair Helen!
Harping back to @Von3 's initial post here 18 months ago, if the inquiring woman felt comfortable telling Von the reason for such a short stay, she would have! She would have put some legitimacy to the question.
These requests do come from time to time, almost always on a Friday and the request is always by the woman...and the request invariably lacks.....detail!.
The boss who wants a bit of extra 'work experience' with the secretary is not going to jump state borders to do it. And in almost all cases neither his pocket nor his desire is deep enough to lash out on an extravagant dinner and a night at the opera before hand! The secretary just chalks it up as a work related expense!
That's the way these requests go in the great scheme of things.
I reject them unless there is a compelling reason why my place needs to used instead of theirs! It's not that I have a 'thing' about the nature of the visit, it's just that they tend to leave a disproportionate amount of mess for the amount of time they stayed!
Respect for the property is never their first consideration! Business to be avoided!
@Sarah977 @Andrea-and-Francis0 @Alexandra316
Cheers.....Rob