@Jennie131
Jennie this is what is going to happen, people can be so callous about disabilities, I have been at times, even though I have a wife with a severe disability.
You do need to spell it out in your listing description that the guest is always your first priority but, recovery from a 'Stroke' (or similar) is time consuming and a little bit of understanding would be appreciated. Let the guest know what to expect beforehand.
I good friend of mine Loui was a wine merchant and a very successful one. One evening he had a stroke, it affected all the left side of his body, his vision and his speech. Luoi was a fighter though Jennie, and by God he worked hard to get his movement and his life back.
Two years later we had dinner with Loui and Giselle and Loui was back running his wine business again.
I said to him..."Gee Loui you have come a long way, what was the hardest part for you"?
He looked me in the eye and with a still slightly distorted speech he said......."The hardest thing was, people thought I was stupid!".....when in conversation others would not talk to him, they would address their comments to someone else, they would treat Loui as though he was an irrelevance!
Jennie I am so sorry you are having to deal with this situation and all I can suggest is make prospective guests aware that you need their help along this journey of life, most are only to pleased to give it if they know what they are dealing with.
All the best.
Cheers.........Rob