@Frank1310 I do understand it's a bit difficult to figure out. I think we've all come to the conclusion that what AirBnB is doing is not adequate. I think a large part of the problem is that we hosts go in with the assumption that a platform that promotes this particular interaction would want to play their part responsibly, as it lessens the chance of problems, which leaves guests and hosts happy, which makes more money for AirBnB.
I do suggest that you keep in mind that for the most part, we can only hope that our guests are honest people who just want a nice place to stay while traveling, working, vacationing, etc. I'm know impressions as hosts are quite subjective, as we all have different properties and hosting situations. There's always going to be one bad apple guest, and likely one bad apple host.
I know I'm lucky because I'm on the property. My place is not likely to be targeted as a party spot, and I'm not likely to have really basic rules like number of guests exceeded, because I am here. I'm in a tourist destination within several hours of metropolitan areas, and people genuinely just want to get away, especially during the pandemic. I don't know how I would handle being an off-property host. I'm sure it's difficult and opens the door to more problems.
Anyway, I wish you the best of luck with your property. Really, all you can do is educate yourself as well as possible about how AirBnB works and treats hosts, and go in with your eyes open. There are other platforms to explore once you get your hosting mojo on track.
Best, Kia