@Sheri13 Ah, Occupancy Taxes... the bane of many Airbnb hosts! I take it from your question that Airbnb is not collecting TOT for you, correct?
If that is the case, you have two awful options:
1. Collect it directly in cash from the guest when they arrive. If you do this, it must be clearly and prominently disclosed in your listing so it doesn't come as a surprise to the guest.
2. Simply incorporate it into your nightly rate and not bother the guest about it. The downside is that you wind up paying Airbnb 3% on money you wind up paying in taxes. I prefer that option since I calculate that for me it amounts to about $36 a year which I would gladly forego to avoid the cash thing and customer confusion.
The only good news is that TOT is tax deductible so be sure you keep track of how much you pay.
As for how you pay your county, that's something you will need to ask your county tax authority or the department that issued your license. In my case, the county sends me a form each month to fill out and remit payment. More than likely your county will do the same.
I hope this helps and I hope Airbnb will develop a way for hosts like you and me to do this in a more simple manner!
Clare