@Cormac0@Karen582@Branka-and-Silvia0
Your feedback is truly important. Wise and experienced hosts surely know what I was trying to pinpoint regarding the dynamics of the host-and-guest relationship. I surely understand naiveté, the romanticizing tendency, or even a political righteousness skipping the fact-based thinking, but we all have our own perceptions and experiences, and if we don't click with our opinions, then we still have the freedom of expressions.
@Branka-and-Silvia0 are so right--every word you uttered just hit the point. I would not have been able to get your message when I was in my early stage of being a host--a stage where I was still romanticizing hosting and not realizing how affective the negativity of a bad guest and a bad review could be to our life and business.
My most recent interaction with Airbnb help has turned me into a skeptic about how helpful they can be to hosts. My guest left the stove on and unattended after cooking. I had no idea when she finished cooking, but when I got home around 21:40, I found the stove on. Although certain friends claim that it was "no big deal," an electrician friend of mine warned me that it was a fire hazard, especially because there were towels, electric appliances and wires, as well as flammable liquid around the stove.
Airbnb help assigned a representative to call me the next day. First off, he asked me if I had taken a picture of the stove on [to prove it]. I replied that when I saw it I just turned it off immediately. When you see your house on fire and family struggling to get out of the fire, would you have the time to find your camera, get the right focus, and find the best angels to take pictures? Of course not! Second, the representative told me that he would need to call the guest to "hear the story of her side." This is to say if the guest denies or twists the story "on her side," then Airbnb help can do nothing about it. Legally it is fair, but hosts end up hurt and guests can just finish their stay, worry-free.
Fortunately, I have been smart enough to put everything in our Airbnb correspondence. I would repeat what has happened in the correspondence, and the guest's apologetic or defensive response to it would mean that he or she acknowledges what he or she has done. Just a small example, if a guest calls to tell you that he has locked him outside, then it would be better if you put in the Airbnb correspondence, "Thank you for informing me that you locked yourself outside."
Host smart. When we try to think positive, we should not ignore the importance of self-protection and preventive measures.