I was terrified of it, @Huma0, absolutely convinced that I would be stuck with the "inquiry" crowd - the people who made it clear in their requests/inquiries that they hadn't read even a word and must have missed all the pictures.
They were going to trash the place, torment the wildlife, and scream in their one-star reviews about no wifi and having had to camp.
But...
Mine is the only place in my village, the only place in my township. Zero Airbnb competition, and yet I disappeared from the map. There were enough forum posts about the subject that I didn't need to ask what the trouble was. When I hit the Instant Book button, I'm not exaggerating when I say it made me sick. I very nearly de-listed.
The bright spot was the pre-booking message. I have been assured since, in this forum, that no one reads those either, but I needed something to make it possible to sleep and that was it.
I keep up the conversations. I do ask questions, and my flexible cancellation policy makes it easy for them to cancel if we determine the place isn't the 'Swiss Family Robinson meets the Hilton' that they were thinking when they hit BOOK.
I had the best guests ever before IB, and I have the best guests ever after IB. I'm lucky to have very, very few unsuitable guests, and there have been as many before as after. Basically, I am saying that I am no better at vetting people than the system is. I only thought I was.
I really feel for you on this. I hope the positive story helps, but I really wish it wasn't necessary. I wish IB was there for those who love it, but that it wasn't pushed upon single home-sharers like you and oddballs like me.
I will look forward to your update.