@Lilly14
Sorry Lilly but that is just terrible!! Your response is a classic example of how to 'shoot yourself in the foot'!! All a great tirade like that is going to do is make you look like a picky, vindictive host and the sort that guests would not want to be involved with. You will find that a massive 'he said/she said' response like that will do you far more harm than good. I can't see the review you are talking about so maybe the guest has complained and had it removed!!
A/. You never, but never, bring private feedback out into the public arena! The guest has had a perspective about you that they felt they would like to privately comment on. They didn't want to mention these things publically and crucify you to the guest community...they actually thought they may be helping you! And what did you do....you stabbed them in the back! Good heavens...
And as you have chosen to respond publically to private comment, a prospective guest (who can't see private comments) will look at the review and look at your response and go ...."What the hell is this host on about"!!
B/. Never get into a slogging match with a guest because you will always loose! The guest is mentioning things that they noted...you are defending them, which in itself is an admission of guilt......that these things do in some way exist!
C/. Some guests will make your blood boil with their downright unreasonable attitude and expectation. Lilly, turn the other cheek!! It is just one review, and it will soon slip down off the first review page and into history. The only thing that will keep on attracting prospective guests back to it is your response.
You should never go further than saying...."We value the review system and feedback, and I have found this guests private feedback informative and will take the points mentioned on side. Some things in hosting are however beyond the control of the host, like....'the weather wasn't warm enough during our stay', but, rest assured we always do our utmost to make every guests stay as enjoyable as possible. I wish the guest all the best in future, and if they should choose to stay with us again, maybe we could snag that 5 star experience next time"
Lilly, this makes you look like a gracious host....the sort we would all want to stay with. You have great reviews, you can do it. Just learn to turn the other cheek at times....It takes a strong person with a lot of character to do that...
But that's what we all strive to be, 'strong people with lots of character'!
I have a current post on how to handle hard guests and it may be of interest to you. Possibly you can learn a bit from it.
https://community.airbnb.com/t5/Hosts/How-to-handle-those-difficult-reviews/m-p/312260#U312260
Cheers.....Rob