@Holly142 Yes, you should mention these kinds of things in the review- other hosts need to be warned, and the guests need to know that their behavior isn't acceptable.
If you can find some positive things to say along with it, if they are true, that makes you look fair. So something like
"XX was a friendly and personable guest who communicated well. Unfortunately they ignored some house rules and failed to follow pre check-out instructions, leaving a pile of dirty dishes which required more than normal cleaning time to deal with. XX would probably be a fine guest if they respected house rules and cleaned up their personal messes in the future."
You haven't totally slagged them, showed your appreciation for what they did do right, and given them an opportunity to improve. They still might not like the review, but they should have considered that when neglecting to follow instructions.
Picky, IMO, would be if you mentioned a few pieces of garbage that didn't make it into the bin, a couple of dirty coffee cups, or a small blood mark on a pillowcase. Or if a host who doesn't make their expectations clear calls out a guest because they just assumed the guest would do those things.
But when house rules and clean-up requests are clearly stated, yet ignored, that isn't okay behavior that deserves a totally good review.
BTW, I completely discount reviews that read "Great guests, welcome back anytime", particularly when I can see that a host leaves that review for almost all their guests. It really tells me nothing and I don't trust it.