@Ann72 – I'm right with you on all points. After creating this post a couple of days ago, I searched the community here (should have done that first) and found the first thread you kindly linked above. Everything I wanted answered is there -- I will lose control over not only my photographs, but also my listing details. I love my photos, if I say so myself. And my listing details are carefully written to make sure anybody booking a 30+ day stay on our property knows what to expect.
So today I'm going to think about whether I just cancel the free photographer, or see what they come up with and then decide. The problem is I can't get speak to anyone from Airbnb Plus support, I've asked a couple of times. All I want to know from them directly is whether should I proceed with Thursday's photo shoot, they will go ahead and take over my listing, or if I get to preview the photos first and then decide whether to proceed. If it's the latter I'll give it a go, but the former and I'm out.
There's also the simple fact that the listing Airbnb has invited is booked solid until August, so I'm obviously doing something right already. I just liked the idea of being "featured" and bumped higher in results.