Hi @Kristin261
I am sorry about your experience. It is definitely not the norm, and you will get better at learning how to vet your guests.
Like @Robin4 Rob I have only had one bad guest (my first, I nearly gave up).
Can I give you some advice to help minimise the risk of bad guests while you are learning the ropes.
1. Remove IB (I know Airbnb will try and persuade you otherwise) this means guests will need to make an inquiry before they book and this gives you a chance to vet them before accepting a booking. Ask your guests about why they chose your place and plans for their stay. This will help you understand whether they are a good fit.
2. Set your listing so you don't accept same day bookings.
3. Only accept guests with photo ID.
4. Don't accept third party bookings.