Thank you for this thoughtful reply which has helped me to shift my perspective to the reality of the situation. The daughter did spend the first evening in her dorm and, now is spending her second evening with us ...however, being a 'fresher,' this is her first time 'away from home'.
I truly empathize! This is her (and her mother's) first big step away and is naturally an anxious time for all.
Giving it further thought, I'm just going to chalk it all up to the separation anxiety had by the family. I really don't want to believe it's intentional deceit and, in reality, it probably isn't!
Thank you, again, for reminding me about the angst associated with these types of events. I'm back in sympathy mode and have decided I'm not going to say or do anything about 'this' and go ahead with my plans to make my usual lovely breakfast for all.
Thank you dear Gillian! This really helped me out!