What to do when a guests reports paranormal activity

What to do when a guests reports paranormal activity

This is our third year hosting.  A guest recently stayed at our cottage and left us a very nice review.  In her private feedback, she asked if any of our guests have ever reported paranormal activity in the house.  She went on to describe what she and her husband experienced, and it troubles me (they heard footsteps, the TV turned on in the middle of the night, etc.).  Two other guests (one last year and one the year before) reported unusual things that happened but did not go so far as to say it may have been paranormal (a painting fell off the wall which shattered the glass, and the glass from a ceiling-mounted lighting fixture fell to the floor and smashed to pieces).  If guests report paranormal activity, is this something we should disclose to future guests?  I searched the community forum and found only one post about this, but it was in 2018 and there wasn't much said about it.  Please, we are not crazy--but we do need to consider all possibilities!  This was a guest's experience, not ours, but I cannot discount it.  Has anyone else ever had an experience like this?  Thanks.

 

 

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Robin4
Level 10
Mount Barker, Australia

@Bruce-And-Patty0 

Bruce and Patty, there is a logical reason for everything, although at times it might not seem like it.

 

I had a patch where the TV in the guest cottage would turn itself on in the middle of the night, in the end we established it was reacting to a neighbours remote control. We changed the remote frequency and it didn't happen again.

I notice your listing is in an un-fenced community so, it is quite possible footsteps will be heard around the property at odd times.

 

You have had three seemingly strange occurrences in three years. It is possible that the painting fixing became unstable in the wall which allowed the painting to fall. The light glass may have suffered from heat shock and when it cooled down cracked and fell. I have personally experienced, or heard of both of these situations, and it had nothing to do with 'paranormal' activity.

 

Bruce, or Patty, I would not be looking for 'Reds under beds'!

I am not saying a spirit presence is not possible, history is littered with castles and century old properties with ghost stories.

 

As this isn't a regular occurrence I would dismiss it being 'paranormal'. We have all had that feeling of Déjà vu  at some time.....something that does not seem right or can't be explained. If this was being reported by guests on a frequent and regular basis then maybe it should be investigated further but, by telling prospective guests your property is haunted, all you are going to do is make your future bookings disappear!  

 

Cheers.........Rob

@Robin4  Thank you so much for your thoughtful and comprehensive response!  You offered opinions and scenarios that I had not considered, and we appreciate that you took the time to do so.  : )

@Bruce-And-Patty0 

 

I always like to find plausible solutions rather than mystical ones.

 

I bring up the 'remote' as far as the TV is concerned because you may be aware that there are on the market 'remote scanners'. The criminal element in the community have discovered these and use them as part of their burglary tools. They aim the scanner at a carport rollador and as soon as it finds a matching frequency it operates the door.

There is a possibility that someone drove past your property with one of these scanners which activated the TV. 

 

It's possibly a little bit long but can I relate a story that happened to me in my working life which involved one of these remote scanners that had a very satisfying ending.

Everyone has their moment in the sun....their moment of glory....and this was mine!

 

In my working life I was a mechanical services contractor….I owned and ran an air conditioning company.

No ethnic origin mentioned here, but we did find customers from one particular European country difficult to get along with and please! They always wanted something for nothing!

 

We had a ‘client’ come in one day and ask one of my sales guys to design an air-conditioning system for his house. Our salesman, Garry, did, and had the recommendations and quote delivered to the client. We didn’t hear back from the ‘client’ and presumed that the business ended up somewhere else.

 

About 9 months later a very irate ‘Person’ entered the building wanting to talk to the manager……me! He fumed his way into my office and proceeded to tell me his air conditioning didn’t work and he required compensation!

I calmly said to him…. “Are you a customer of ours?

He said… “Yes. I came here 9 months ago and you designed an air-conditioning system for me.”

I said, “Sorry, I can’t place you. What is your name and I will get the file out, tell me when did we install this system for you?”

He said…. “No, you didn’t install it, my family members are all competent tradespeople, they did the job, but you designed it, and it doesn’t work!”

I said to him…. “Are you seriously expecting me to take responsibility for something I did not have any part in supplying and installing? If you are, you are seriously mistaken.”

He got up and said ever so aggressively “See you in court!”

I said to him…. “Now hang on, this is not an admission of any liability but would you like one of our guys to have a look at the unit and see if we can find an issue for you?”

When you run a business you must be a diplomat and a conciliator!

He agreed….and there set in chain the most amazing sequence of events!

 

Backtrack: About five months before, our unit lock-up had been broken into! The b*stards had one of those roaming scanners that searches frequencies until it gets a match and as soon as it does…..bingo, the electric roller door opens. They cleaned us out….took eight brand-new units, copper piping and electrical gear!

 

Back to the present, I organised for two of our service guys to go and have a look at this unit. They did and reported that the installation was fine but the unit did have a faulty “reversing valve” and refrigerant was bypassing, compromising the performance of the machine. I got the fridgey to get the details off the machine and I would try to get some manufacturers help for this “customer”!

When our guys brought back the information, it turns out this non-performing unit which was going to end us up in court was in fact one of the units that had been stolen from our lockup five months before!!!!

 

I rang the “customer” and said to him…… “The unit does indeed have a problem and I would like to get the manufacturer to accept responsibility. Could you please give me the purchase details for this unit?” The reason I made that call to him was, I wanted his version of the purchase, and of course, that conversation was recorded! This was what I wanted to hear!

He said…. “My cousin bought the unit from xxxxxxxxxx and sold it to me as part of a family deal!”

There you go…….. noose around the neck!

I said to him….. “Well, mate, you have shafted me twice.”

“1/….You came in here after free advice which you then wanted to use against me for your advantage!

“2/…. The serial number of your unit matches one that was stolen from my premises five months ago…..At this point it’s become a police matter, goodbye!”

I hung up the phone and I thought ‘sucked in you **bleep**’…… I gave all the serial numbers to the police for a second time, and this time as they had a red hot lead, they managed to track down all but two of the stolen units.

 

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It was three months later when I next saw he and his cousin in the dock. You have to understand, this is not Grand Jury stuff and this theft case was one of twenty listed to be heard in this courtroom on that particular morning. There were twenty defendants to various cases plus their supporters or detractors plus all their legal representation. The courtroom was filled with perhaps 230 people or more waiting for their case to be brought on!

At one point after the prosecutor had questioned me about details of the case, the judge turned to me and asked me if I could identify anyone in this courtroom, I pointed over to the dock and I said to the judge……

“Yes, your honour, that person over there, the one on the right said, he would see me in court!”

 

Sorry I know that's a bit long!

 

 

Cheers……Rob

 

 

@Robin4  What an excellent moment in the sun!  I love it when we get to see karma at work. : )

Lisa723
Level 10
Quilcene, WA

@Bruce-And-Patty0 you charge extra for that 

Fred13
Level 10
Placencia, Belize

@Bruce-And-Patty0 

    The definition of paranormal is: denoting events or phenomena such as telekinesis or clairvoyance that are beyond the scope of normal scientific understanding.

 

They are also events beyond logical explanation, and that is exactly why they should be filed under the in-explicable and definitely not be brought up to any guest in the future - till further notice - once they start hearing chains however is time to take it seriously.

 

Unless you may want to change your listing to attract a whole new type of guests.

 

Good luck.

Laura2592
Level 10
Frederick, MD

@Bruce-And-Patty0  I stayed as a guest in a place where I had a very weird encounter with lights going on in the middle of the night (pull cord in a closet), my dog acting very weird,  and "cold spots" in one room. I honestly was so sure something was going on I "talked to the ghost" and told her we were so impressed with her home and asked her not to scare the dog. IMMEDIATELY the issues stopped and the dog returned to his normal self. I did a thread on it for a Halloween topic. 

 

I did tell the host and because I am a fellow host, was concerned that she might think we were just being difficult. But this stuff does happen. I am not a believer but I have owned many old houses. There are things that go on with no logical explanation. Most of the time its totally benign, but there has been so much hype that people get scared needlessly. 

 

In New Orleans, if a place is haunted the realtor will feature it on the sign as a selling point. I don't know what I would do in your case. It really depends on if you believe in this stuff or not.  Warning people will put the idea in their heads that it will happen. If no one has been in danger, I would just say "interesting feedback! Thanks for letting us know." if a guest brings it up. I might call in someone who deals with cleansing homes and see if they pick up on anything. 

 

This is my thread on our experience: https://community.withairbnb.com/t5/Hosting/Haunted-and-Spooky-Airbnb-Stories/m-p/1359001

Robin4
Level 10
Mount Barker, Australia

@Laura2592 

Laura, Before my wife Ade was diagnosed with MS the medical profession thought she was suffering from Panic Anxiety. We were recommended to a specialist in relaxation therapy.

The first meeting we went to there were about 14 participants and the therapist who ran the session.

 

She started off by asking us all to introduce ourselves and then said we would start off the session by doing 15 minutes of meditation. This was designed to relax us so our minds would be more receptive. We were told to close our eyes and let our thoughts drift to wherever they wanted to go!

 

We were all sitting in a circle and the meditation started.....I have never been into this sort of thing but for Ade's sake I played along! Every now and then I would take a peak around the group to see what the others were doing. After, I think, about 9 minutes in I felt myself, my mind, drifting and I had this vision that became crystal clear in my mind. 

When the meditation time was up the therapist brought us back to reality and we were each asked in turn to describe what we had experienced. I was the 3rd in the group to be asked and I said I had no idea what to expect but towards the end I had this incredibly strong vision of a squirrel running around in a fir tree on the snow covered slopes of Mt Fuji in Japan! As I said that a woman on the other side of the circle jumped to her feet and shouted, "I saw exactly the same thing, I saw a squirrel in a tree in Japan with a mountain in the background"!

This revelation broke the group up, the therapist tried to explain that there were lots of things about the human brain we did not understand but, this experience had a profound effect on all those who were there!

I can't explain what happened, was it psychic? I have never had it happen again, but, it was real and it's something I and Ade will always remember!

 

Cheers.......Rob

 

@Lisa723  @Bruce-And-Patty0  @Fred13 

Branka-and-Silvia0
Level 10
Zagreb, Croatia

@Robin4  Great stories :))) yes, we use too much of our ratio side and don’t hear and use our “inner voice “ and intuition and other skills. When we relax it comes out. It happens quite often to me to think about someone whom i have not seen or heard for some time and i meet this person shortly after that, the same day 🙂 And i experienced the help of the guardian angel and felt.bio energy and telephony etc... its interesting 🙂

 

my tv in airbnb turned on randomly for some time and disturbed my guests. It turned out one of our guests tempered with settings. I fixed it and no problem since. 

 

 

@Branka-and-Silvia0  science doesn't know everything. I can conjure up someone to contact me more often than not (and sometimes I do this inadvertently for people I have no interest in speaking to!) It is very interesting.

Fred13
Level 10
Placencia, Belize

Very interesting thread. 

Lorna170
Level 10
Swannanoa, NC

@Bruce-And-Patty0   Does your TV have a sleep mode setting?  We had a TV with this, and at the end of the "snooze" it would turn itself back on.  It was quite annoying until I figured out what the control settings were as my spouse would snooze the Tv before going to sleep and it would be back on at 2 AM.  As to the pictures and lights, I have had picture hangers work themselves out of the wall due to vibrations or house settling and a dining room chandelier that was installed improperly and fell six months later.  Just saying that there is probably a "normal" explanation for everything.