I've spent a couple of hours on the phone with airbnb over the last few days. My response to a private message from a guest is appearing in my reviews as a public message, and it's nonsense, doesn't make sense, because the guest's private message is not showing, just my (private) response. The guest public review is good but they privately brought up one matter, to which I privately responded - but my response is public. Airbnb cannot move it from 'public' to 'private'; and cannot remove my response, even though it's my response and I've requested removal.
My other issue is that as a guest in an airbnb, I submitted a nice public review plus a detailed private message with points for improvement; airbnb advise that it is scheduled to show publicly (after the 14 days). It's my input and I have asked for it to be removed from the public domain, but airbnb cannot do so. It will put everyone off booking the place. It's a nice apartment but contract cleaners do not seem to be doing their job, and attention is needed; I wanted to give the owner a chance to rectify.
Airbnb cannot hide or remove either of my comments and say there is a glitch in their system. A suggestion was for me to edit my second input (as a guest) - which I should be able to do as the host has not posted a review and the timing is within 14 days - but airbnb system will not allow me to see my comment in order to edit.
Reading this thread, the public/private problem has been there for years, it is not new despite what airbnb have told me. Why have public / private review sections which do not work. Get rid of them and revert to direct messaging if you can't get it right please.