@Emily1447
Emily, you are overcrowding them!
Guests want to rent a bit of your property, they don't want to become part of it!
I also welcome guests when they enter the property grounds, I show them how the bed works, the heating/cooling, Wifi logon, where extra towels are and I then get out and leave them to it. I like them to discover things as they settle in, not make a big deal of them.
If they need to know something Emily, they will ask you, don't behave like a mother hen.....they are probably trying to get away from that in their regular lives.
Let them ask the questions, don't bombard them with your life/property history.
You sound like a lovely person who wants to share but I can see from what you have written that they are probably frightened you are going to regiment their stay......just back off a bit!
Cheers.........Rob