@Dora31
This guest has broken so many guest etiquette rules that I would have thought this review would have been straightforward to write!
1/... He attempted to invade your personal space, The fact that chose to accept your boundary does not excuse the attempt on his part.
2/...He attempted to entice the host into a reservation outside the Airbnb system. Airbnb could conceivable penalise both of you for that.....and you a superhost would know that. Good on you for standing your ground there.
3/....He attempted to use possessions of yours that are clearly not offered in the listing description.
4/....He refused to adhere to your house rules.
Was there anything about his stays that was acceptable Dora?
@Sarah977 Sarah has made some good points here as far as this guest trying to book outside the platform. I am not sure how far you wish to push this Dora. You have come here for advice about writing the review, and my feeling is, you don't want to totally crucify this guy, you just want to give him a wake up call. I might be wrong but that's the way your post comes across and if that is the case you, in the review system, maybe say something like this.....
"xxxxxxxx was a pleasant guest who kept his space in good clean condition and could, with a little more thought, make an acceptable guest. I enjoyed his company but he struggled with my house rules and the boundaries of my personal space. I wish him well for the future but would prefer to decline the opportunity to host him again!"
Dora by saying something like that you have told future guests you would not wish to have him back again, so you have warned others. You haven't accused him of being anything other than thoughtless, you have simply said he was not your cup of tea. That is your perception, and that is allowed in the review.
But if you do want to just call a spade a spade review him as Sarah has said and hope that he is removed from the platform!
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I have said before here Dora, my feeling is, it is always wise for a female host who hosts alone to give the impression in the listing description that there is a 'significant other' in the wings. There are some weirdos out there who need to be informed that certain boundaries are to be respected. You can say something like...."My partner is always available should you not be able to contact me personally" Obviously don't give other contact details but, a statement like that reinforces the perception that you, are not part of the listing description!
All the best with the review Dora.
Cheers........Rob