@Pallav27 It's not really enough to simply say "no smoking on the property." Like it or not, a significant portion of your guests are going to be smokers, so it helps to say in your listing - and personally show upon arrival - where the nearest place guests can smoke is. If that happens to be off the grounds of the property, then so be it, but ideally there should be a waste receptacle there to prevent butt litter.
Your House Rules would be much more effective if they were streamlined and simplified - all the conditions and exceptions are just confusing, and might be putting off some good potential guests. If you really need to have a different set of rules and amenities for longer stays than for shorter ones, create a second listing with the minimum length of stay set as what you consider to be "longer," and link the calendars to prevent double-booking.
I'm afraid it's not really tenable to demand excess electricity charges on Airbnb. You may request any fee you want, but Airbnb won't back you up if the guest declines it, so all you get for your troubles is an angry review. What you can do instead is raise the room rate to cover high power usage but offer a rebate at the end of the stay to guests whose usage falls within certain guidelines, as an incentive to conserve energy.
As for being a "control freak" - well, unfortunately it comes off much more that way when you have to nag guests remotely based on secondhand information. This is where it would be better to employ a friendly local co-host who can meet your guests in person on arrival and attend directly to anything that comes up during the stay. That makes all the difference between making people feel looked after and making them feel micromanaged.