Again it’s a difference in cultural perception between our countries.p despite sharing a common language.
The offensive word appears to be **bleep**.
as to **bleep** in the bud.....meaning stop whatever it is, immediately!
A further difference in culture as I am wryly smiling at this use of the word **bleep**, whereas you are inadvertently taking what appears to be a defensive stance.
Regarding the weapons, substances etc here in the U.K when posting a packet at the post office, the assistant routinely asks what is in the packet and whether it is prohibited substances etc.
Regarding weapons in your part of the world it appears to be enshrined in your rights, here in the U.K. carrying a weapon usually results in a free “holiday”, in one of her majesty’s prison cells....again differences in culture.
What you may regard in your culture, as having fun and having a good time ( especially in someone’s family home) is somewhat different in our culture.
We may speak the same language but culturally we are poles apart, but it’s what makes it all so interesting, otherwise we would be automatons.
My suggestion if you want to have fun and a good time,book yourselves a holiday at Butlins or Club 18-30 or better still try Blackpool