@Patricia3334
No, we are not hotels. However, we are in the hospitality business. Many guests will not see the difference. If you leave things out for guests, be prepared for some of them (even if they are a minority) to help themselves to all of these.
Either factor it into your nightly rate or only leave out what you are happy for them to take. Sure, I get it that you are leaving a selection because some guests prefer this, others prefer that. However, if you leave it there for them, I really do not think you can chastise them in the review (nor the private feedback) for taking it. That is giving out very mixed messages. Did you tell them to help themselves to some, but not all, of it? If not, which rule have they broken?
I leave out much more than I would expect one guest or group of guests to use, and most use very little of it. Occasionally, you get a guest who will help themselves to as much as they can. It's annoying to be sure. However, you have already inadvertently given them permission to do this. It also tends to balance out as most guests don't use/take that much.
I try not to get offended unless guests use/take what is not offered to them, e.g. my own personal items. For sure, use the shampoo, conditioner and body wash I left out but don't take my towels etc.