Reviews are double-blind, @Colleen426 , meaning the guest cannot read your review before submitting their own. If they go beyond the 14 days without reviewing you, they will see it, but will be unable to submit their own at that point. This works both ways. You cannot see a guest's review until you submit yours, or until the 14 days are up, whichever comes first.
I sometimes wait until the "last minute" to write a guest review if they broke rules and I suspect that getting the notification will remind them to write something that is proactively retaliatory.
Don't think of it as a bad review. Think of it as an honest review. Please do write it. You are part of a host community, and surely you don't want your fellow hosts to have to put up with whatever it was you put up with.