@Thembi11 So sorry to hear that.
Good to know: Only the host decides about the cancellation policy, which applies for his listing - not Airbnb. So, as a frequent traveller better look for flexible or moderate policies.
Do you know, that there is a 48 hours grace period for strict policies?
- Free cancellation for 48 hours, as long as the guest cancels at least 14 days before check-in (time shown in the confirmation email).
Did you ask your host about changing the dates? This is also an option if you have selected the wrong month.