No, it's not the guests fault, it's my fault for pre-approving him. I was traveling alone at the time with a serious health condition. I answered the inquiry late at night believing it was for five nights, not seven. I should have waited until the next day to respond. My problem, I know, but I had no reason to believe that my house would be booked at a rate lower than my nightly minimum. I have always been careful to be sure that smart pricing is off, and that my calendar is booked at the correct rate, which has always been the same.
So I'm confused, I don't ever remember seeing the words "special offer" after pre-approving an inquiry before. And there is no nightly rate listed under "host payout". It says Total Stay Price, and under that it says "special offer." I was told by airbnb, and it has always been my experience, that to send a guest a special offer I need to type the amount I want to charge, not including the fees, and sent it to the guest. I didn't do that. He sent me an inquiry with a question about checkout policy, I answered the question and pre-approved him for the dates he requested, and it was booked.
So can a guest can send me an inquiry, and then I send them a special offer simply by pre-approving the dates he requested? And the reason I didn't contact the guest was because I wanted airbnb to help me find a solution. Instead, I've had messages ignored, I've been hung up on, my case has been closed three times, with no explanation for why this happened. In my three years of being a host on airbnb (and now superhost) I have never cancelled a guest booking, I have never had under a five star rating, so it didn't cross my mind that airbnb wouldn't at least attempt to help me find a solution to this problem. It has taken me three weeks to get a final answer from support on this.
The reality of it (for me), is that I can't afford to rent a different place for my family and I to stay for Christmas week, so either the guest will be angry with me and I will be penalized, and dates blocked out.