You can leave a review, @Lauren2655 . The prompt for that should show up after the stay should have ended, so in a month? You can say that the road is very muddy, beyond just bumpy, and that the host is correct that a 4WD is recommended. Do the other reviews of the place mention the road?
It is good that you were refunded, and good that you got help from neighbours and the property manager. What a nightmare that trip in must have been, complete with knocking at the door of a COVID-quarantined trailer! No wonder you are shaken.
It sounds like you want even more money from the host, just because his place is the only one in the area that was affordable (probably because of that road!), but I hope I am reading that wrong.
Hopefully all goes well in Albuquerque!