had a terrible experience recently with a host where the bed wasn't even functional. it was so bad we left a night early because of how much pain we were in. we kindly contacted the host directly to see if we can resolve this / anything that can be done and she got defensive and flat out said no, how she's a superhost, that it's our fault, etc.. so we looped in airbnb and they gave us a partial refund, which we are happy about.
however, i still want to leave a review for this "superhost" so others are aware of the situation. but i'm a bit nervous if they can find out my information, escalate to airbnb to reverse the partial refund, do something crazy, etc.
so my question is: if i forfeit reviewing the host (it's still within the 14 day period), can they still review me and would that review be public on my profile after the 14 days? aka can they accuse me of being a bad guest and then i won't even be able to defend myself after the 14 days since i didn't bother leaving a review due to the above reasons?