I had this exact situation so I ended up on this thread. I wholeheartedly agree with @Ann30283 as well as @David2905. In my situation, the guest was fine, left the place clean and followed rules so he got my 5-star rating and a “Yes, I would host him again.” Then I got to see his THREE star rating and his tearing apart of my place (ridiculous things out of my control). So no, now I don’t want to host him again so I’m disappointed that I can’t change it, regardless that it likely won’t affect my otherwise stellar 5-star rating. I guess I have to hope he never books again since we were such a huge letdown for him. Fingers crossed!
(And yes, I addressed his “slights” ever so nicely in my response to his review).