Hi Delia, I’ve been hosting in my home for over 10 years as a single woman. Early on someone from Airbnb ( the days when you could actually get someone on the phone) gave me the best advice… write out everything you expect in your listing even if it sounds silly… (like wear a bathrobe, ask me about laundry beforehand ). Privacy, decorum , what’s ok what’s not ok …and btw never host anyone who has written that Airbnb is like dating! Also turn-off instant book . Insist prospective guests read the entire house rules/ listing before you accept a booking. Print out the important rules and leave in them in the room .
I’m very carful looking at someone’s request. If they’re too casual, or impersonal ( like they’re dealing with a hotel) or don’t give enough info ( even when asked) I don’t accept the booking stating I’m not comfortable with it. It’s not foolproof but it helps. I’m happy to share my listing if it would help,
All the best from Tori in California ..