@Dana1220
I take it you do self check in?
Personally we have never done self check in so we dont have your problem,
We like to meet and greet our guest then we can give them a quick tour show them around and answer any questions they might have, Lots of guest mention how they like that we check them in,
Plus one of us will go to the apartment 30 minutes before and turn the lights on and the A/C so they are not walking in and have to find their way around.
But we each have our own way of Hosting,
After that we dont bother them they have my number and can contact me via airbnb,
I only remind them when the cleaner will come,