Where do I find this message of mine to edit

[Noeline10]

[Bettye6]

Hi Noeline,

First as a host you would not see guest response except in your messages.
what I find on is that  I recently was a traveler & did not even see that option. 
After reading so many comments of different where is this questions I’ve come to believe the app is different for many different people as whether they updated, using a lap top, iOS vs android, etc.
My friend was sitting next to me looking at my listing. It was quite different than my preview that I’m able to see off my iOS. Perplexing to say at least. All my info was the same just in a very different order.
 I go with the flow. 
Kind regards,

Bettye