@Wilson168 Airbnb doesn't own your property or your str business, you do. They are just a listing service.
Neither do they own your relationship with guests forever that book through Airbnb . While it's not okay to try to make a private deal with someone who contacts you through your Airbnb listing, after their booking is over, Airbnb is no longer involved. So, for instance, I tell guests who've been great and who I would be happy to have book with me again, that they can just contact me by email or phone if they ever want to come back.
And while I only list a private room in my home, I block the calendar dates if friends or family want to come stay.