Hi Carmen,
It's frustrating to face these kinds of issues, but it's good you're prepared and documenting the damage. The photos and your attempt to clean the items with Tide are essential for demonstrating the effort you’ve put into resolving the problem. Stains from oils and pet messes often require professional cleaning or replacement, which you’re within your rights to claim as damages through Airbnb.
For the comforter, flipping it over can work temporarily, but it’s a short-term solution. Spot-treating the oil stains with dish soap may help, but oil is stubborn, and complete removal isn’t guaranteed. If the stains and snare are significant, consider this grounds for a replacement charge.
For the sofa covers, professional cleaning or a stronger degreaser could improve the situation. If the damage is irreparable, it’s fair to charge for replacement, as these are items you provided to protect the underlying furniture.
When selecting sturdier replacements, consider down-alternative comforters with water-resistant duvet covers. These are more durable and easier to maintain, with many hosts finding brands like Utopia or Bedsure reliable (opt to white comforters so you can easily use bleach if needed). For sofa covers, machine-washable, stain-resistant, or waterproof options are excellent choices, especially for pet-friendly listings.
For future stays, reinforce your house rules about pets not being allowed on furniture and discourage the use of hair or body oils that could stain. Providing pet beds and washable furniture covers adds a layer of protection while maintaining guest comfort. If you'd like assistance crafting a message to Airbnb or choosing specific replacements, let me know.
I hope this helps.
All the best,
Upfish Management